The end of 2010

So, what has happened since May 2010?  I travelled to Vegas, NYC, and Boston for the summer. Spent most of the summer at the outdoor pool and playing beach vball.

For some reason, I ended up dating the same guy as this girl that I know...let's call her Jane.  So Jane and I were matched up on line with the exact same guy.  How did I find out? She was telling me about this great date that she had and was terribly excited at the prospect of dating this new guy.  As she told me the story, I instinctively had the sinking feeling that I had gone out with the exact same guy.  Without her even finishing her story, I stopped her in mid-sentence and said "i went out with the same guy".  In order for her to validate my statement as she suddenly stopped mid-sentence and challenged me by asking me what the guy's name is. So as I uttered his name i could sense a feeling of disbelief, shock, and panic on the other end of the telephone.

So long story short, we both dated the same guy for a month before i gave him an ultimatum to pick between us.  He refused to give me a straight answer and to this day we are still just friends.  He said that I was a question mark. After he firmed up that we would forever be friends, we went out twice more where he somehow treated me as though we were on a date.  When we were supposed to date, he treated me like a friend, when we are supposed to be friends, he treats me as though we are on a date.

During all this drama, I somehow hooked up with this guy that I had a fling with last November when I was in Boston.  We also saw each other a few weeks ago which was one of the best night out that I've had in awhile but recently we haven't been in touch.  I have a soft spot for that one too.  I should really toughen up.

So I went out on two more dates in the past week.  Both ended up with no sparks.

This year has been pretty good.  We will see what will happen in 2011.

Happy holidays everyone!